Love on the net? What do you think? You must heard miscellaneous stories about online dating which also been known as cyber love since the rising of the internet. It’s suddenly affects our culture in a very short time and has given millions of people new opportunities to find love in ways never before possible. Talk show hype over cyberspace love encounters and movie You’ve Got Mail have popularized the romantic potential of the internet. There’s nothing not right about internet relationship but you still have to beware of irresponsible addicted net people who is always take an advantage from the flexibility of the net. The process of an online relationship, however, is very different from real time dating processes. The online environment is, by its very nature, restrictive. For new internet users, the online culture shock can be daunting.
In this unique new dating world, the most important thing to consider is what happens when two strangers perceive each other as a friend. Many choose anonymity of meeting electronically thinking the distance provides a cushioning from the usual pains of the relationship. Is this true? Maybe you have the answers for this question. How does cyber romance vary from a real life romance? Perhaps one significant difference is that communication plays such a large part. Words that convey feelings have enormous effect. On the Internet, interaction is limited to typed words. Tone, emotion, voice, appearance, and inferences are all imagined to help construct understanding. All too often, the image of the perfect mate is projected, and transferred. What appears to be the perfect soul mate is actually an illusion.
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